Just saw this and thought I’d share. It’s super important.
Remember this always. I especially mean it for arguments/disagreements/fights with our spouses. I know in the heat of the moment, we tend to say things in anger to “win” a point. But what are we winning anyway?
I know I can easily get blinded by my feelings and my emotions and I let them override all rational thought or reason. I’m not a great communicator and I don’t fight well. I know I need to keep working on this aspect of myself.
We all have a lot going on. Family. Work. Life. Things build up. We (at least, I) tend to take out all our frustrations on the person closest to us.
Once they’re out there, words are hard to forget.
It’s a work in progress. Let’s just hope that we can keep growing and loving and that we always continue to forgive each other. Because when the forgiveness stops, where do you go from there?